Debbie's Daily Doings

Child Abuse Comes in Many Forms

2010-11-09T17:45:00.000-06:00

It's no secret that I have a strong yearning in my heart when it comes to children. Today, I was in the grocers when I saw a land slap her kid to the floor. I began to pray. Abuse is prevalent, even with all the awareness available to us. Parents take their frustrations out on their children and expect no one to say anything.

Had I had the opportunity, I would have probably called social services, but I'm not sure how much better the child would have been with the breakdown of our social services in this country. Let's pray for children who come from or are still in abusive families.

Facts Change- Trust Jesus

2010-11-02T09:48:00.000-05:00

There are many facts that changed in recent years. All my life, we talked about nine planets, now there are 13 or more. All my life, we were told that butter is horrible for you, but recently we've learned that butter is better than margarine. I could go on and on.

I wonder if this is what will happen when Christ comes back? Someone will be off telling someone, all my life I was told God didn't exist and that Jesus Christ was just a man, but look at the sky, there he is and I cannot go with him!

Today is the best day to try Jesus. Facts change too quickly to gamble your life away on them.

Death and Taxes

2010-10-31T09:36:00.000-05:00

Our neighbors love having get togethers and every time someone blocks a portion of our driveway. Yesterday, I decided I would say something again. I built up my nerve and knocked on the door. I thought I heard crying on the inside. After the second knock, she came to the door. She looked horrible. Come to find out, her sister had just died and everyone was over hoping to comfort the family. I felt like a schmuck. I told her what I needed and offered my regard before I left.

Death is more certain than taxes and it is never easy on the family. That's why preaching the Gospel is so important because then we have some solace to offer the family that has been left behind.

We're Pregnant!

2010-10-20T17:44:00.000-05:00

We're pregnant! I cannot believe it happened as soon as we stopped trying. Between redecorating and the horrible issues we had with the plumbing, I just hadn't thought to try. But I found out today that we are definitely having a baby!

Psalms 1

2010-10-07T18:07:00.000-05:00

Psalm 1 was the first Psalm I ever learned by heart. Please read and be encouraged, no matter what life may look like right now.

King James Version (paraphrased for clarity)

Blessed is the man that walks not in the counsel/advice of the ungodly, nor stand/abide in the way/path of sinners, nor sit in the seat/fellowship with the scornful.

But his delight is in the law/Word of the Lord and in His law/Word does he meditate both day and night.

And this man will be like a tree planted beside the river/waters that brings forth fruit in season; his leaf will not wither and whatsoever he does shall prosper.

The ungodly are not the same but are like the chaff which the wind carries away.

Therefore, the ungodly will not stand/will not be justified in the judgment, nor sinners in the congregation of the righteous.

For the Lord knows the way of the righteous, but the way of the ungodly will perish/end.

My Short Stories

2010-10-05T19:30:00.000-05:00

I haven't abandoned the first book that I began, but lately, I've been writing short stories for children, for teens, for adults, some very steamy. I tend to do it while cooking or waiting at the doctor's office or something. Anyway, today I realized I actually have 13 completed stories and after talking to some of my friends, I think I'll try to submit a few to various publishers to be made into an e-book. I have one that I really believe Red Rose Publishing will like. I have three I'm going to submit to Lanico Media House and the rest, we'll have to see. I will keep you posted, but please pray that my little darlings find a home. I think being a published author would kick my life into high gear.

Ode to David Todd

2010-09-25T10:34:00.000-05:00

David makes me happier than I can imagine ever being. He does the things most men would never do for their wives. He holds my hand when I'm tired or achy. He works a full time job and still helps around the house. I never have to remind him of the trash, the lawn or the bathrooms. He's a dream and I love him.

Today, I pray for all my single friends. Don't settle for something other than what God would prepare for you Himself. He has a plan for your eventual marriage, for it to be a testimony of His goodness, mercy, faithfulness and kindness. Be strong and wait. Read 1 Corinthians 7

Passing of My Uncle

2010-09-12T14:10:00.000-05:00

My great uncle died just a little while ago. He was 84 and still fit. Apparently, he died peacefully without being ate up with cancer or some other disease. God is a preserver of the upright and my uncle was a true man of faith and love. You will be missed, Uncle Joseph Nettle.

Workout Regimen

2010-09-05T09:04:00.000-05:00

I weighed this morning and I am 182 lbs. I'm so pleased with the weight loss and with my workout regimen. Contrary to popular opinion, you don't need all the latest gear and fad workouts. All you need is a little time, determination and some open space either outside or indoors.

My workout consists of walking two miles a day, either outside or on the treadmill. I do 100 crunches a day, lately all in one setting in reps of 25. I do push ups some days, hit my stairs in my house for 10 reps, park at the farthest end of the parking lot at the mall and other stores, walk every aisle of Walmart while I'm there unless I'm in a hurry, and I swim regularly, at least twice a week. And of course, sex is a great workout too. It costs me almost nothing to get healthy.

This Generation

2010-09-01T08:20:00.000-05:00

It is both sickening and saddening to see the state of our younger generation who think it's okay to be disrespectful of elders, to use physical and verbal abuse as weapons, to fill themselves with horrible music of drugs and violence, and to destroy the very essence of the English language.

Who is training our children today? Where are the adults? What are they doing? What are you doing? What can I do? Will this blog post make any difference at all in the grand scheme of things?

I hope you will read this and realize that we are responsible for how we train our children. We don't have to completely shut them off from the world. We need only show them Christ, keep them covered in prayer, and live a better life in front of them.

I Want...

2010-08-27T06:26:00.000-05:00

I want to be used by you, God. I want to glorify your name all the days of my life by the life I live. I want to be an expression of your love in the Earth. In short, I want more of you and more of you and more of you.

I'm still not pregnant yet, but I know you hear my desires whether spoken or held in my heart. It will happen.

Discipline and Love for Children

2010-08-25T09:46:00.001-05:00

Children need discipline but not so much that they never feel loved, appreciated, understood or wanted. Be sure that for ever word of criticism you give, that another five words of praise and love and adoration are shared too. Use wisdom because if you break your child's spirit, there's no telling how long it will take for them to recover.

I'm Late!!!

2010-08-23T20:03:00.000-05:00

Well guess what is happening now? David and I have been trying to have a baby. As of today, I am three days late. I don't want to get my hopes up but if all stays as it is now, I'll test in another few days. David is bouncing off the walls with joy as if he's already seen a positive pregnancy test.

Life Offline

2010-08-20T19:39:00.000-05:00

Time online is great, but more and more people are neglecting their physical life for their virtual one. Don't get me wrong, I see the appeal. You can reinvent yourself online, hide away and be protected by a digital persona. But your family loves and desires to spend time with the real physical you. Don't forget.

Car Accident

2010-08-10T17:15:00.000-05:00

Tina and I witnessed a wreck this morning. The two children survived but it looked unlikely that either of the parents would make it. I keep reflecting back to those little children being pulled from the car, screaming because their parents' blood was all over them. It was a mind-rattling experience for us both but we stopped mid walk and prayed for them all.

Life is short. What are you doing with yours?

Down to 190 and Counting

2010-08-07T17:04:00.002-05:00

Over the past couple of months, I've put in more dedicated work to lose weight. I started at 224 lbs and now I'm down to 190 in about 7 weeks of dieting and exercising. I started walking a quarter of a mile and now I am up to two miles per day. I try to do the majority of it outside, which helps me stay consistent.

I feel much better, my blood pressure is back to normal, I have a tremendous amount of energy and as an added bonus, my sex life is MUCH better.

If you have health issues, don't overlook your weight as a possible cause or aggravating factor.

Broken Spirit by Chrishawn Simpson

2010-07-14T17:08:00.000-05:00

One of my diva sisters has released yet another book, a wonderfully written novel, Broken Spirit, that depicts the horrors of abuse and the miracle of survival.

This is a great read and I highly suggest you consider getting a copy soon. Visit her website, www.chrishawnthewriter.com and order a few copies or recommend to your book club.

Brisk Walk

2010-05-21T09:40:00.000-05:00

A brisk walk can be worth more than twenty doctor's visits. We all too often want quick and painless fix to all our ailments. We hate pain, but no pain no gain. Get out in nature and enjoy the workmanship of God's hand. The fresh air will lift your mood. The sounds of nature will soothe you, and the walk make you healthier by cutting fat and relieving tension and stress. Try it. You just might love it!

Real Friendships

2010-05-17T08:11:00.000-05:00

Friendships should be built off mutual respect and common ground. If you're in a friendship that causes you to bow down all the time just so you can be accepted, that's not a friendship. Friends don't dominate one another. They don't force their opinions. They don't cheat you of the joy of being yourself.

With a friend, you should be able to let your hair down, relax and vent without fear that it'll become a scandal. How is it that those who claim to want a friend are the very ones who show themselves as unfriendly everyday?

To get a friend, be a friend.

Completed Eight Chapters

2010-05-15T11:16:00.000-05:00

My manuscript, while still untitled, has officially taken some shape as I completed my eighth chapter last night. I love writing, though I miss subbing at the school. I love the freedom to keep a certain pace when I begin the process.

Still, I'd feel much more comfortable if I could decide on a title that didn't sound like a sociology handbook. I'm in a toss up between "We Cry for Truth" and "What Your Child's Struggle Says About You"

Will There Ever Be Another Carolyn Carroll?

2010-05-12T13:07:00.000-05:00

I brag on my divas when I have the opportunity because they all mean so much to me. There is one who kind of lingers in the background, always popping in to encourage, pray for and share wisdom with everyone else while never really sharing her own needs or own pains.

Carolyn Carroll is a wonderful woman who works hard, prays harder and is always available to her sisters. She talks the Bible, walks the Bible and eats and sleeps it too. You never catch her with her "hair down" so to speak because she doesn't get carnal and fleshly with us. She keeps us focused on Christ and His impending return. She is like one of the grounding wires to the group and if I have never told you before, Carolyn, I love you. I appreciate you. I adore your personality. I cherish your friendship. I needed you as a sister. I consider you like a gift from God. Keep on being there for us, but also let us be there for you. I believe I speak for the whole group when I say that there isn't one of us who wouldn't sit up all night with you if you needed us to because we know you'd do it for us.

Trusting Fictoria

2010-05-10T09:01:00.000-05:00

Fictoria is getting serious about her boyfriend. The other day I walked in to hear them discussing money and saving. Yesterday, I caught them kissing each other, though nothing alarming other than it was a kiss. When he was leaving, I saw him pass her a notebook. Being the parent that I am, I asked to see it. Inside was a five year plan to take them from now to purchasing a home. I was delighted and destroyed and disturbed. I felt like a scratched record.

Children grow up and we worry while we're pregnant that nothing happens. We have healthy babies. We worry that they will stay healthy and they group into healthy teens. We hope they'll finish school and they graduate with honors. We worry that they find the right spouse, best job, perfect home. I know now that God is in control and that she has the right foundation and that I can trust her to make good decisions.

Whether she makes it with this guy or not, she knows how to go about getting the best things out of life. And she knows how to respect herself and choose wisely. God, I thank you for her having all that I lacked as a teen and I trust you with my daughter.

WHO ARE THOSE HAPPY WOMEN???

2010-05-07T10:51:00.000-05:00

Someone might ask who the divas are and what the diva Facebook group is all about. Let me share.

One day Lacresha Hayes and I were chatting and she kept going on and on about the women who'd helped her live when she wanted to die. (I write that with her permission.) I had a similiar experience with a few online friends myself. And so often, we all tire of a social network, get bored or whatever and then you lose someone you wanted to hang on to forever- a real friend.

So, we decided to start a group which I wanted to name Divas because of how I view Lacresha. She came up with the acronym and we have been going ever since. This group of women are not just women who want to join a group so they can have something fun to do. This is a group of women who have inspired others by the tens, hundreds or thousands. They all have a testimony. They all have a generous spirit. They're all sweet women who share love, prayers and wisdom. We may not always agree, but we always love one another. That is our oath and we keep it daily.

The next time you see us chatting and talking amongst ourselves, you're not witnessing a group, but a lifelong sisterhood. We are D.I.V.A.s and we're proud of it!

Fighting Chronic Illnesses

2010-05-06T13:44:00.000-05:00

Just a short paragraph today for those who battle chronic illnesses.

I know that no one can ever really understand your pain when you battle daily to get out of bed. I know that for you to get dressed and keep your life going daily, to find a smile for someone else is heroic for you. I want you to know that if no one else celebrates you, I think those of you who battle and win it every day are an inspiration to the rest of us who are fully healthy and completely miserable, self-centered or always complaining. Keep fighting.

Marriage Restoration with Lensey and Lacresha Hayes

2010-05-02T06:57:00.000-05:00

I love anything that builds marriage, but this book is something different, refreshing and honest. Lensey and Lacresha Hayes put their heart and soul into this book, Truth and Intimacy: A Couple's Journal, and it shows with the responses they are constantly garnering in their couple's ministry work.

Marriage restoration is as big a part of this book as marriage building. The stories are inspirational and honest. In fact, the book is raw and ready for those who are truly ready to change. If you have the opportunity, visit their marriage blog and get a copy of their book. Support those who are doing a great work and you will benefit yourself beyond words.

Real Love Makes You Cry

2010-04-30T06:44:00.000-05:00

Last night, David held me while I cried about what he probably thought of as nothing. What made me cry? He did. His sincerity.

When David made it home from work late yesterday evening, he walked in, hugged me and kissed me. Asked what was for dinner. Everything seemed normal. Around 8, he asked if we could go to bed earlier than normal. I didn't want to, but agreed since he swears he can't sleep without me in bed. When I came out of our bathroom, David was standing there with a little white teddy bear, a card and a ring box. He got down on one knee and asked me to marry him all over again. That was sweet. But, the card made me cry.

"Deb, I have never once felt worthy of you and the less you ask for, the more I want to give. Today, I thought of everything I could to give you but all I have is already yours, especially my heart. Then I remembered you never had that carriage ride nor the cathedral train and I never had the chance to use the personalized vows I wrote in my heart the day I first laid eyes on you. I am but a man but you are an angel. You are the best mother and the sweetest wife. You are, even on your worst days, a million light years ahead of every other woman in my eyes. How else can I tell you, Mrs. Todd, that I am in love and my whole life is yours? When I woke up this morning, I looked over and tears came because I saw you again. Sorry I didn't buy you a funny card. I decided on a blank one because Hallmark hadn't caught up with real life love yet."

Tribute to Samantha Richards

2010-04-29T07:14:00.000-05:00

One of my diva sisters, Samantha Richards, has inspired me to be more open and more daring when it concerns my faith. She's also shown me how not to have bad days. It's very rare that she complains, that she murmurs. She's always talking about Christ, always ready to praise Him. And I am honored to know you, Mrs. Richards. You keep the praise party going and let us all learn what it is to be on fire for God. I love you, Sam. I can only hope that one day I'll see you in person.

How Can You Improve On This?

2010-04-28T06:43:00.000-05:00

I am a nature girl. David and I walk a lot. We hike. We ride our bikes together. We've been white water rafting. We've skiied, though for me never again. We swim in lakes as often as we do in the pool.

When I put nature into perspective with God, I keep asking myself how can you improve upon it? What can I possibly add to the wonders God has set before us? What can you?

The answer- love. All we can add to this world is love for God and for each other. Think on that.

Tribute to Joyce Sterling Scarbrough

2010-04-27T06:04:00.000-05:00

One of my diva sisters, Joyce Scarbrough, better known to us as Blue Diva, has been on my mind quite a bit. Why?

Joyce is one of those kind of people who keep her issues inside while always coming with a kind and encouraging word for others. She has strong shoulders and is a die-hard friend. She's honest and she has the strength of character to stand up for what she believes in even if no one else agrees.

I see her on Facebook daily. She's faithful to her Mobile writer's group. She's responsive to her fans and readers. She's wonderful at marketing her books (TRUE BLUE FOREVER; DIFFERENT ROADS; SYMMETRY) without coming across as pushy or overbearing. She never asks for anything but is always giving.

She writes. She bowls. She organizes. She supports her husband in his career and sports. She supports her children in their endeavors. She's an all around champ and if she ran for president next term, she'd have my vote. I love you, Joyce Sterling Scarbrough!

The Depression Sneak

2010-04-26T18:01:00.002-05:00

Depression is a slippery little evil. Sometimes it comes for reasons known to you and other times for reasons you cannot even fathom. Today was a hard day for me emotionally though I kept trying to shake it off and get with the program. Finally, I got up and put on some jogging clothes and went for a brisk run/walk. After ten minutes, my mood was lifted like I can't describe.

When you are feeling down and energy-less, get up and do exactly what you don't want to do. Go around friends or go for a walk and enjoy nature. Don't be led by evil pesky emotions.

Family Day at the Park

2010-04-23T13:29:00.001-05:00

Today is family day at the park and then off to the library.

It's unfortunate that libraries are suffering now because they are filled with a wealth of information and local history. Support your local parks and libraries, museums too.

Trying for Another Baby

2010-04-22T13:18:00.000-05:00

David and I have decided to try for another child. Fictoria is now 17 and David doesn't have any biological children so pray for us as we believe God that I give birth once again. I've officially gone off the pill.

Family Flaws

2010-04-14T14:20:00.002-05:00

Family is what you make it, but it is never perfect. You are not perfect. Be patient with the flaws of those you love. That is how, after all, you'll prove to them that you love them.

Uncontrolled Ambitions

2010-04-10T20:21:00.000-05:00

Don't allow your ambitions to blind you to the needs of those right in front of you. If you have to step on others to get where you're going, then you don't need to be there.

Prejudices? Today? Yes, They Still Exist

2010-03-24T10:23:00.000-05:00

There used to be a time when whites were friends with whites and blacks kept to themselves. That was the way of the world, and thankfully that was before my time. I am fortunate and my life has been enriched with the variety of friends and personalities that are a part of it.

I have great friends in nearly every race and I make no apologies for it. I recently made a temporary friend on Facebook who within a few days told me he thought I was being silly for helping my black friends promote their books. He kindly told me that if I was going to have black people on my page to interact with that he'd not want to be my friend and so I deleted and blocked this man.

His ideology was ridiculous. He was into marketing. He told me the only blacks on his social networks are those he's trying to sell to, but that he'd never support any kind of black owned business or purchase black products. How sad for him? I can only hope that within the next generation prejudices die out.

Passive/Aggressive

2010-03-08T13:49:00.002-06:00

As much as I hate to admit it, my friend was right about me. After reading through my journal, I realized that I am very passive/aggressive. I will let so much slide and take crap until I can't anymore and then I go on the offensive.

Teaching school is hard, but dealing with parents who expect you to bend the rules for them because they go to church with you is another. Why would you expect or even desire someone to pass your children along knowing they are not learning what they need to learn? That's a sign of bad parenting. There, I said it. Deal with it!

Letting It Go

2010-03-01T20:52:00.000-06:00

Have you ever had something that plagued you night and day for weeks? People tell us to let it go. I wanted someone to explain how that worked. Finally, I guess God got tired of my loopiness and answered it for me.

You just open your hands, your heart or mind and LET IT GO! When the thoughts try to come, refocus your mind. When the feelings try to come, refocus your emotions. When your fist wants to hold tighter, just open your hands. Surely even a baby has that much control over themselves. Help, help, help, Lord

Mending Tears

2010-02-23T13:14:00.000-06:00

Recently, my group of friends went through a tear. Two friends parted ways and everyone else was left to choose sides and argue about who was right and who was wrong. It was ugly!

A real friend's job is not to choose sides, but to be honest. If you ever find yourself in a position where something in front of you is about to divide, rather than pick a side, why not take the higher road and point out the value of staying united? That's the only way to mend a tear in a relationship.

My aunt used to say that teeth and tongues fall out, but we try to keep them around as long as we can. Don't discard a friendship because of petty disagreements.

Fight Night

2010-02-07T12:18:00.000-06:00

Hubby wanted to surprise me with a night full of fun from the past... that's when we do things that we used to do when we first met. I walked in the room and this burly man nearly knocked me down with one of our big goose down pillows. It was fight night!

I had a blast. I have a headache this morning, but had a blast last night. It's the small things.

Help a Sister Out

2010-02-05T18:45:00.003-06:00

I know that ebonics is something that is catching on, but is anyone else concerned with the failure of the english language? I am concerned when our children sound like idiots because they hear broken grammar so much that they have no idea how to speak it properly.

I'm not a sista. I don't live in "da" hood. Please, let's teach our children excellence, please!

Tragedy in Haiti

2010-01-30T05:46:00.000-06:00

I'm not sure what the tragedy in Haiti speaks to you, but it tells me that time is short. Every time natural disasters hit, I am left wondering how many of those dead gave their life to Christ and how many of them died without HIM.

As saints, we should be busy spreading the Gospel and teaching people the way to get back to God. How we live here matters a great deal.

Haiti, be encouraged and know that people all over the world is praying for you.

Prayer Requests

2010-01-29T08:28:00.000-06:00

List of people that need prayer:

~ Gordon Mitchum, tumor

~ Joy Loften, healing

~ Brenda Murphy, financial miracle

~ Lacresha Hayes, court miracle and healing

~ Vicky Warren, financial miracle

~ Jody Meywes, court miracle

~ Kerry Sparks, salvation

~ Larry Devlin, salvation and healing

~ Victor Oliver, heart attack

~ Baby Asia, premature birth

Resolutions

2010-01-01T00:12:00.000-06:00

I will begin a workout program that I stick with this year.

I will be more careful about the food I eat.

I resolve to keep all my doctors appointments and to seek medical care when needed.

I resolve to increase my giving to those outside my church who need help.

I resolve to start every day in prayer.

HAPPY NEW YEAR

Sing Song

2009-12-13T23:23:00.000-06:00

My niece is over and she sings everything. I can't say that I heard her speak one complete sentence without singing at least part of it in the last three days. Does anyone else have this problem with children?

Prayer Request

2009-05-20T07:45:00.000-05:00

Readers, we're needed to pray. Please keep Maryanne Dinkins in your prayers. Also, keep Charlotte Bradford and her family in your prayers.

Pneumonia

2009-02-19T21:08:00.000-06:00

I finally got my self up from the lounge chair and went to the doctor. I was expecting him to say it was the flu. To my surprise, it was pneumonia and I spent three days in the hospital. I could have died because of my hatred of needles.

If you feel sick with a cold/flu for more than three days, go to the doctor as soon as you can. It could be pneumonia. Everyone's pain tolerance is different and so you need to make sure there's not something more going on.

Taking from the Poor

2009-01-05T18:47:00.000-06:00

I know it's just my opinion, but doesn't it seem that the new system of our current government administration is taking from the poor and struggling and giving to the rich? It's sickening.

The Porn Industry

2008-11-06T12:20:00.000-06:00

The porn industry is booming while churches are shrinking. It stinkin gets on my nerve to combat pop-ups and filth on the net, on the television, and everywhere.

I am a proponent for Rod Parsley's work with the Center for Moral Clarity. I believe porn grows because there's a market for it. We can't battle it by shutting down businesses with red tape. We have to change the minds of the people who buy the trash. Let's take a stand against porn by refusing to buy it, see it, rent it, click it.

Loving Life

2008-11-02T13:25:00.000-06:00

Can't say this enough. Life is uncertain. It can bring something good or bad or both all in a moment's notice. Still, what else is better? Life is a gift from God. We should love it like we love any other gift.

Experience Matters

2008-10-12T16:07:00.000-05:00

In my weighing out who to vote for, it came down to two things for me:

~ Experience
~ Character

John McCain has experience and that outweighs Obama's charisma and charm. It outweighs his call for change. Obama just flat doesn't have the experience that makes me feel comfortable gambling with the White House and my vote.

When it comes to character, both men leave something to be desired, but McCain outshines Obama in the fact that he has served this country in not only fighting but enduring torture and stayed loyal under pressure. I love my country, but I probably couldn't and wouldn't do that. To me, that speaks volumes. I hope it will to you also.

Sarah Palin, Hockey Mom

2008-10-02T10:25:00.000-05:00

Someone asked me what I thought of Sarah Palin just recently. Everyone pushes her as a mom, but it's not just her being a mom, it's her being a hockey mom and a politician at the same time. She doesn't leave her children for her career and has many years of experience balancing the two things together.

I like Sarah's realness. I like her zeal. I love her convictions for Christ. She makes no apologies for who she is or what she knows. What more could we ask for in a VP?

Supporting Sarah Palin

2008-09-30T13:03:00.000-05:00

Sarah Palin is a very strong woman, full of convictions that many of us share but may be too afraid to speak it out.

I'm in full support of John McCain and Sarah Palin and here's to them entering the White House. She's ready, if not more ready than any of the rest. Hallelujah! God is sending us some help.

Check out these websites:

www.johnmccain.com

http://mccainpalinbloggers.blogspot.com

Two Thoughtful Posts

2008-09-21T01:46:00.003-05:00

Today, I happened upon two thoughtful posts. I couldn't rest tonight so I got up to make a post. Over at Free Spirit, Marvin Wilson asked a question about a compromising professional and ethical position. I couldn't comment because I seriously had never thought about it, but it is food for thought.

Also, my good friend, Lacresha Hayes, blogged about the white/black issue that still plagues us. She is one open lady, but it made me remember something that I teach my students. You may not be my students, but this is for everyone. Be careful about divulging information online. It's a whole lot easier to destroy someone when you've never shaken their hand or ate dinner with them. Don't give anyone any ammo to destroy you with. Lacresha has one of the most interesting and controversial blogs on the net to me. Eventually, she's going to make enemies. If you are an honest Christian and are extremely verbal about your beliefs, you'll make enemies. It's unavoidable. So, be leery about trusting people so quickly. Be leery about the info you give out. Just be leery. Now, visit those blogs and leave your comments.

Supporting The Center for Moral Clarity

2008-09-05T09:21:00.003-05:00

I watch Rod Parsley every single day. The man is an awesome example of what Christian ministry and ministers should be. His Center for Moral Clarity is in need of help. We all can play a part in it, too.

All through September and October, I'll be sending $20 every week toward helping this center get larger and increase its impact. I'm looking for 100 people to do this with me. I'm including a link to his website so that you can go directly there.

It's sickening that we might have a liberal President this next term that may outlaw our abilities to speak against homosexuality, abortion and anything else people call socially disturbing. Please, let us use our blogs to come against this next movement by socialists to take the Christian voice out of the Earth. We can't allow it to happen.

Go to the Center for Moral Clarity now and let Pastor Parsley know you support what he's doing.

Raising Children Isn't Always Easy

2008-08-20T15:22:00.003-05:00

Yesterday, my good friend Lacresha talking about parenting from a hypocritical standpoint. As much as I hate to admit it, I suppose all parents have some hypocrisy about themselves. We don't try to be that way. It just ends up like that. It's never purposeful, hopefully not.

I know that being a parent isn't easy. In fact, it can be one of the most challenging jobs in the world. You have to deal with your insecurities in light of your children, your friends and everyone else that is watching you raise them. You're going to make mistakes along the way, but if you can avoid the pitfalls of blaming, denial and hypocrisy, you'll be just fine.

See Lacresha's post on the topic at Celebrate Women.

Joe Key's Novel, The Right Man

2008-08-05T20:12:00.005-05:00

I just finished up a novel by Joe Key entitled The Right Man. It left me panting for more and was much too short. I started it last night and didn't want to go to bed until I finished, which was three this morning.

Title: The Right Man
Author: Joe Key
Publisher: Living Waters Publishing Company
ISBN: 978-0-9814532-2-4
Price: $12.95
Availability: Anywhere books are sold

I'm a Dottymaniac

2008-07-26T01:05:00.004-05:00

Yes, I too am a Dottymaniac. Why? Because Dotty is the hottest thing going right now. When I heard about the cute little book that tackles such a big subject, I just had to get involved.

Dotty is a pink hippo who has to deal with discrimination because all her kind are normally purple. In this adorable little book, illustrated by Kevin Scott Collier, your child can learn how to value his/her differences, and how to treat other people who may be different.

This story was brilliantly told. Get your copy today at http://store.livingwaterspc.com, or anywhere books are sold.

Title: Dotty's Topsy Tale

Author: Donna Shepherd

Illustrator: Kevin Scott Collier

Publisher: Living Waters Publishing Company

ISBN: 978-0-9814532-6-2

Price: $14.99

People of Integrity and Greatness

2008-07-24T22:52:00.003-05:00

There are some people who walk according to paths already cleared. There's nothing wrong with these kind of people. There has to be someone to walk in cleared paths, but there also has to be those who are bold and courageous enough to go in uncharted waters.

I was visiting the site of one of those kinds of people today. Lacresha Hayes is just an all-around wonderful woman. As I visited her site today, I found yet another one, Minister Celeste Kelley. This woman is absolutely amazing. I loved the interview to pieces.

Go see for yourself at http://learntofeelpretty.blogspot.com

Hanging with this woman makes me look good. Some things are all about who you know because you become what you hang around.

Two Great Books

2008-07-15T12:29:00.003-05:00

I've been doing a whole lot of reading lately. School is out and reading helps me to unwind. Two special books have been on my mind for the past two weeks, since the time I finished them. (Yes, I always read anywhere from two to three books at a time.)

One of them is Storm by Joyce Anthony. That book had a lot of undeveloped potential. The storyline was great, but it was the things never mentioned and only slightly hinted at that makes this book stand out in my mind. I hope that Mrs. Anthony will continue to write and maybe take it to that deeper place of potential I see in Storm.

The second book is The Fire that Burns for the Last Days by Kevin O'Connor. Before that book, I never considered myself a lukewarm Christian. I thought I was doing good in the fact that I get up and drag myself to church twice a week, I pray everyday, and read my Bible frequently. However, my heart was pricked at the reading of this book because I can't remember the last time I actually told someone about Christ. I can't remember the last time I prayed with someone else about their issues. If they don't ask, I've gotten out of the habit of offering. I can't really remember when I last enjoyed fellowship with my church family. This book left my heart heavy and my mind haunted by thoughts of where I'd lost the joy of my salvation. It'll be one of those books that I read again, and probably again, and yet again until I can read it without being convicted.

A Chance to Win More Than 27 Books

2008-06-03T06:50:00.003-05:00

After the recent storms in Arkansas, and the loss suffered by Lacresha Hayes and her church family, Joyce Anthony decided to collect books from various authors and sell chances to win it at $1 each, with all the funds going to Lacresha Hayes and her church family. Please see the list of books below and the link to send your money to for the opportunity to win these books:

1. It Had to Be Us by Harry and Elizabeth Lawrence http://www.bettyjotucker.com/
2. Susan Sarandon: A True Maverick by Betty Jo Tucker http://www.bettyjotucker.com/
3. Confessions of a Movie Addict by Betty Jo Tucker http://www.bettyjotucker.com/
4. Death By Candlelight by Billie A. Williams http://www.billiewilliams.com/
5. Knapsack Secrets by Billie A. Williams http://www.billiewilliams.com/
6. Storm by Joyce A. Anthony http://joyceanthony.tripod.com
7. Conduct Unbecoming by Nina M.Osier http://www.geocities.com/nina_osier/
8. Redemption by Judith Rochelle http://www.judithrochelle.com/
9. Shepherd’s Pie by J. D. Webb http://www.jdwebb.com/
10. Heal and Forgive: Forgiveness in the Face of Abuse by Nancy Richards www.healandforgive.net
11. Cherry Blossoms in Twilight: Memories of a Japanese Girl by Yaeko Sugama Weldon and Linda E. Austin http://www.moonbridgebooks.com/
12. I Romanced the Stone by Marvin D. Wilson http://inspiritandtruths.blogspot.com/
13. Different Roads by Joyce Sterling Scarbrough http://www.authorsden.com/joycelscarbrough1
14. True Blue Forever by Joyce Sterling Scarbrough http://www.authorsden.com/joycelscarbrough1
15. Gentle Journey by Elaine Lyons Bach http://www.shoutlife.com/profile_view.cfm?uid=39176
16. Angel’s Dance by Lynn C. Johnston http://www.lynncjohnston.com/
17. Bank Roll: A Max Stryker Mystery by Janet Elaine Smith http://www.janetelainesmith.com/
18. Dakota Printer by Janet Elaine Smith http://www.janetelainesmith.com/
19. The Rape of Innocence by Lacresha Hayes www.authorsden.com/visit/viewwork.asp?id=22774&AuthorID=73926, http://learntofeelpretty.blogspot.com
20. Becoming by Lacresha Hayes www.authorsden.com/visit/viewwork.asp?id=22774&AuthorID=73926, http://lacreshahayesfanclub.weebly.com
21. The Feeling Soul: A Roadmap to Healing and Living by Mark Linden O’Meara http://www.healingresources.org/
22. Crazy Thoughts of an Online Romance by Epstein LaRue http://www.epsteinlarue.com/
23. Arpetta Honor by Annette Snyder http://annettesnyder.atspace.com/
24. The Kahills of Willow Walk by S. K. Hamilton http://www.skhamilton.com/
25. Beyond Dancing by Anita Bloom Ornoff http://beyonddancing.tripod.com/
26. One Frog Sang by Shirley Parenteau http://www.shirleyparenteau.com/
27. Curley and Q and Me, Too Baby Album by Marcia Trimble illustrated by Kim Spanaugle http://www.clearblogs.com/kimsponaugle

One lucky winner will get a box that includes all the books on this list!!! In addition, there will be numerous additional drawings for a copy of one of the books, so the chances of winning a prize are numerous.
To enter the drawing, you can do one of two things:
a. Go to http://paypal.com and buy as many chances as you wish, using the email address : lacresha.hayes@gmail.com. Every one dollar donation gets you one entry in the drawing.
or
b. Contact Joyce Anthony at rainbow@velocity.net and I will send you information on where you can send a check or money order for your chances.
The drawing will be held on July 1, 2008 and winners will be notified by email by July 5, 2008.

Pastor Kevin O'Connor makes waves with his new book!

2008-05-29T19:36:00.002-05:00

Pastor O'Connor makes waves in his new book. I was recently speaking to a friend who'd read the book, The Fire that Burns for the Last Days. She was celebrating his stand against various things in the pulpit.

Pastor O'Connor's book shows great disdain for homosexual ministers and musicians. It shows equal disdain for preaching liars and hypocrites. The book, though full of rebuke, is also full of encouragement. If you're looking for someone with an honest voice, don't miss out on this book!

Rod Parsley's Culturally Incorrect book and programs

2008-04-29T09:05:00.005-05:00

I've been trying to participate in my community with programs similar to that of Rod Parsley's Center for Moral Clarity. I'm not sure why he didn't run for President of the US.

Anyway, I spoke with a child three days ago who is pregnant. She is only 11 years old. In our ministry, there is another child, age 16, who has a baby by a 40 year old man. The First Baptist Church here, the largest in the city, had a member who was just imprisoned for a rape he participated in eight years ago. Was it because someone finally found him? No! It was because salvation changed his heart and he turned himself in. What would have happened if he hadn't found Jesus Christ? That is the question that scares me to death!

I am calling all my readers to participate more with Rod Parsley's Center for Moral Clarity. Please purchase his book, "Culturally Incorrect" and share it with neighbors when you finish it. We have to do something. We have to stand up and be heard. We will no longer turn our heads when children have babies by their teachers or married men. We will not keep allowing this sickness. We won't turn our heads from cults like that one just busted up in Texas. We will not allow it because to do nothing is to be guilty also!

Cancer is an Evil

2008-02-28T17:56:00.002-06:00

Now we have an answer. My mother-in-law, whom I love, has cancer. It's unfortunate for us all. Lois is the kind of woman who feeds strangers, still greets her neighbors daily, heads her neighborhood watch program, and teaches girls proper etiquette to being a young woman, how to dress for success, and how to pray about daily activities. She's a very big part of our church. I love her. Go figure! We don't have the typical in-law relationship. I've cried on her shoulders as much as I have my own mom.

Cancer is horrible because it kills slowly. But Lois is a survivor. I will be doing more research and posting my findings here. If you have cancer, please don't hesitate to send me information. Stay tuned here as we celebrate the power of prayer. We are believing that her body is divinely healed.

Want to learn how to write a book?

2008-02-28T17:52:00.004-06:00

Have you heard the news? Living Waters Publishing Company is sponsoring two book writing webinars. Each one will detail how to write a book when you have an idea, but no writing experience.

They will be held on March 1st and March 29th. The cost is $45. For more information, contact Lacresha Hayes at preacha1975@yahoo.com.

An Interview With Mary Baird

2008-01-24T22:59:00.000-06:00

Mary Baird is one of those kind of women who is so humble and so sweet that it makes you wonder if she's real. Through numerous trials, she was determined to fulfill God's calling on her life: writing! And she does poetry like nobody's business. I present to you Mary Baird.

Q: Tell us a bit about who you are as an author.

A: I am so in love with the Lord, I can hardly sit still. He is awesome! He asked me to write for Him back in April of 2007. I had never thought I would write again. I used to write in 2003, but was so discouraged by people and things that I quit.

Q: How many books do you have in print?

A: Right now I have one, His Reflections, a poetry journal.

Q: What was your inspiration behind your latest book?

A: Always, my Lord. He is the reason I am anything.

Q: How long did it take for you to find a publisher? Who was it?

A: Not very long to find one. The Lord led me right to Living Waters Publishing Company and I am blessed to have them on my team.

Q: Do you have any other books in the making? Have you begun to submit it to publishers yet?

A: Another poetry journal. I pray it will be out after I see how the first one goes.

Q: Were there any writers/authors you were inspired by? If so, who?

A: God is my inspiration and all I write comes from my heart. It wouldn't be real for me any other way.

Q: What is your favorite book?

A: Bible, hands down, and Hinds Feet on High Places

Q: Please, give our writers some advice.

A: Always pray and seek the Lord on each thing you write. Let Him be in the center, and create, inspire, and empower you. Words flow so easy when He is in control. Never fail to have praise and worship music going to invite Him in. Perservere in all things! Keep going even if it looks like delays and detours abound. Finally, give your all to God. He will make a way through the "wilderness" of writers' block! LOL!

Inspirations from The American Dream

2008-01-21T17:51:00.000-06:00

Tonight, we are watching The Jacksons: An American Dream. The first thing I thought about was the mistakes parents make. I suppose I could say the mistakes people make. It's so easy to make a mistake with our family and our friends. It's more difficult to apologize or to erase the damage done by carelessness or thoughtless actions.

Now that the movie has gone off, I feel the need to comfort my children and tell them I love them. Maybe you should do the same.

Humility Means the World

2008-01-21T17:41:00.000-06:00

A few days ago, Lacresha Hayes asked me to remove the post I'd made previously to this. She said she wasn't at war with anyone, nor in opposition to anyone. She humbly requested that I removed the post and not get involved or stoop to the level of posting about the things said about her or her company.

I learned a lot from her email. I learned that sometimes, people can be too combative. I've always been a strike me and I'll strike you back person. That is not Jesus' way. I would love to say I do it Jesus' way, but I don't. I try to behave as a Christian first and foremost, but sometimes I fall severely short. As a writer, a mother and a wife, I tend to forget humility when it is most needed. I believe this is the state of the world today. It is our choice to behave in the right or wrong way. People do not control what we do. We control what we do.

Humility means the world.

Uncomfortable Attention

2008-01-19T01:40:00.000-06:00

Some very mean people have been visiting my blog with nonsense of late. There's a few things I have to say about that to you anonymous tipsters, as you must obviously call yourselves. Don't ever write me anything negative about a person on my blog. They are here because I trust them. What I don't trust is anonymous tipsters. If you are right, why hide your identity? Or, are you running from a lawsuit which is inevitable if you continue on.

I believe Living Waters Publishing Company is a great company. I trust Terry Kennedy, wholeheartedly. His research matters to me. Some of the other sites I can do without. Before this past incident with Absolute Write, I trusted Victoria Strauss. I don't anymore. I don't know if it's her or her associates there, but I know they have went too far for me to call them credible.

I know Lacresha through a few Yahoo groups, and some emails. I know she is a woman who loves God. And to attack her, call her a liar, say she hates gays, is prejudice and more that has been sent to me is downright unacceptable. To attack her because she is only 32 and has a 17 year old son, and was raped is dispicable. No person who cares about authors would stoop so low. So, please, don't write this blog or you will be reported, tracked and charges will be pressed (if I can do that). If I can't, I'll try. I will not be a part of this mess. I serve you warning, a few of us are gathering to approach whomever we have to for Absolute to be removed from the web altogether, or at the very least, what's decent, is to take down the post about her rape and her son. That's mean, vindictive, spiteful and only done by people without a real life.

An Interview with Lacresha Hayes

2008-01-16T18:40:00.000-06:00

This interview was easily conducted. I had already done a lot of research. My interest was peaked when I found her on the RAINN Speaker's Bureau list, thanks to Katherine Hull. Her latest book, The Rape of Innocence: Taking Captivity Captive, features information in the index about various sexual assault organizations. So, without further ado, let's get to this interesting interview:

Q: Lacresha, tell my readers a bit about yourself.

A: There's actually not a lot to tell, Deb. I'm a wife and mother, a good ol' country girl, an author and a business owner. I am enjoying life inspite of how it started.

Q: What made you write this particular book?

A: My life was hard, and as hard as it was for me to imagine it, millions of women and men have been through worst. What choice did I have? To be silent would be to exacerbate the situation so many suffering people are in.

Q: How did you come about join RAINN (Rape, Assault and Incest National Network) in their quest to alert the public to a growing threat to families and sanity?

A: That was another natual step, to be honest. They are people who truly care, as I do. I see what they are doing. They are active. I don't want to sit around behind some desk talking about the problem. I want to put my hands to the plow, so to speak, and help people heal. I healed, and if I healed, so can others.

Q: What is the theme of your book?

A: Sexual abuse, abandonment issues, domestic violence, suicidal tendencies and an overcoming salvation and faith in Jesus Christ. No matter how horrible some of the story is, I don't want anyone to feel sorry for me. God brought me out of it all with a fairly sound mind. (LOL)

Q: What advice would you give others who have been hurt like you?

A: Seek God first. There are no other real options. In fact, everything else makes it worse before it gets any better. It's not the end of the world. My new motto is to make your pain your power! I mean that with my whole heart. This is the key to healing. Avenging the evil of your past by doing good for someone else.

Q: Any other works in the making?

A: As a matter of fact, there is. Becoming: My Personal Memoirs is due out sometime in the next two weeks. Introducing the Culpeppers, my first try at a children's book, will be released in March of this year. Full Exposure: Behind Church Walls is coming soon also. There are a lot of books in me, so I may be writing for the rest of my life.

About Debbie's Daily Doings blog

2008-01-10T14:20:00.000-06:00

Hello Everyone, and Praise the Lord. I'm very happy to finally have this darn blog up. I'm a secondary teacher, an aspiring author, a mother and wife, a darn good cook, and a book reviewer. This blog will keep you in touch with my many, many daily doings. (I love d's. Can you not tell by the blog title. My daughter's name is Dayana. One son is named Drake and the other Dillion. My husband's name is... drum roll please... Stephen. He is the odd ball of the family. Okay, that is what they call a convenient distraction.)

I will post book and music reviews on occasion. I will do various things so keep coming back. Like Forrest Gump's mother said, you never know what you're gonna get.